As children mature into young adulthood, they
become preoccupied with finding their Mr or Miss Right in life, unfortunately
we do a very poor job of choosing our dream mate for life. When choosing our
mate we become very superficial, because we're looking at the package on the
outside, and this is the factor that cause us to make snap decisions. We like
what we see, because it's pleasant to the eyes, so we choose him or her for
their great looks; and hadn't thought about the character of the person, at
all. when you're young , you put more emphasises on looks than we do, on
whether or not the person has a good heart , or if they're loving and trust
worthy. This type of choosing is totally silly and the benefits you reap will
hardly worth boasting or bragging about. This is the reason, I think we should
trust God for choosing our life time mate because God don't choose trash and he
doesn't deal in mess. When in search of a perfect mat for ourselves, we want
only the best that God has to offer us. So, we make sure we specify to God what
you truly want in a mate, although , he already knows exactly what you want and
need in a mate.
Sometimes we choose poorly, which causes us a lot
of heart break, pain and eventually a divorce, because of the poor choices we
made for a life time mate. When God chooses for us, there's a godly guarantee
that we will have the best life time mate that God has chosen especially just for
us.. We don't have to worry about whether it's going to work out or not because
we know our Lord doesn't make mistake of any kind. So, Instead of going through
a life of impatience, and trying to choose the right life time mate for us,
let's trust God to do the picking and choosing of a perfect mate just for us.
When God pick your mate, we know he or she is a winner in life and in love
because God picked them for us. So, if you want a mate chosen just for you, ask
God and he will send you a mate that you will love and cherish the rest of your
days and you want have to worry about grounds for a divorce, because once God
put someone together, no man can put asunder, you're joined together for life
and eternity.
14-08-2012
